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South Asian HangOuts

What is South Asian HangOuts?  |  Why is the South Asian HangOuts group needed?  | Why come to a South Asian HangOut?  |  What happens at South Asian HangOuts?  | Group Agreement | Meet your Host


To book a ticket for any HangOut please book through Eventbrite


What is South Asian HangOuts?

A twice monthly friendly and welcoming online social and peer support group for gay, bi and trans men with South Asian heritage, aged 18 years and older.

Our aim is to reduce isolation by creating a safe space to get to know each other through shared lived experiences, topic discussions and creative activities.

This online space is an opportunity to build community by coming together and connecting with one another in a safe and friendly non-judgmental space. 

    • We meet the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month 6-7.30pm
    • Please try to arrive 5 minutes early. The Zoom room closes at 6.10pm  (this is so we can minimise any disruption).
    • Please read our online group agreement

By South Asian we mean countries including Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Bhutan, India, Iran, Maldives, Nepal, Pakistan, and Sri Lanka and beyond. We welcome gay, bi & trans men from all South Asian faith backgrounds as well as those who don’t identify with any faith. One of the main aims of the groups is to reduce isolation including social, cultural and geographical, by connecting with each other's lived experiences.


Why is this group needed?

Traditionally South Asian cultures are community-focused with faith, religion and culture being a significant part of one’s upbringing. Sometimes these rich cultural experiences can create different types of pressures for us (including marriage pressures, family honour, conflicts of dual heritage or cultures, education and job role expectations etc) and obligations (including looking after elders, financial, pressures to continue the family name etc).

This aim of the online Zoom social support group is to reduce isolation (including social, cultural and geographical) and encourage access to new knowledge and awareness; and to be part of a safe, peer-led support group and to take part in discussions, activities and form new connections with one another. 

The social support group offers participants a safe and inclusive space to think about topic discussions and activities to explore a personal and group perspective, without fear of judgement or discrimination. 


Why come to a HangOut?

Here are some reasons people have said the come to our Zoom HangOuts:

  • To meet new people who I would not encounter in person
  • They are more accessible to me due to my health requirements 
  • I don't have to worry about people I know seeing me while I am out 
  • I can fit them into my day easily and still come along when I'm busy 
  • Socialising can be really hard and awkward, I find it easier on Zoom.

Please note to make the online Zoom space as safe and inclusive as we can:

  • When you first enter the waiting room on Zoom your first name on your ticket needs to match your first name on Zoom before we can then let you in. 
  • Please use your pronouns (if you have one) next to your name on Zoom.
  • Using gender inclusive language helps.
  • We believe by having your Zoom camera turned on, you might benefit from viewing, perceiving some friendly faces and can make other people feel safer. 

What happens at the group?

We start off with intro's, group agreement, followed by a 'check-in' with each other and then we start with a topic discussion or activity.

You're welcome to spend more time listening than speaking and you are not expected to tell us about your sexuality or gender unless you want to. At the end of the event, you will be asked to fill out a quick anonymous survey to help us with valuable feedback so we can continue to have relevant topics and improve your experience.

Once you attend we hope you’ll be able to meet online with other LGBTQ+ people to chat, share stories, make new friends, and hopefully have fun.


Group Agreement

    Our Group Agreement is informed by your feedback in creating ‘safe spaces’ that are welcoming, inclusive and encourage participation. We are making sure that everyone who books a ticket for a HangOuts, is aware of the commitment for everyone that attends.  Please read below.

    https://www.lgbthero.org.uk/online-group-agreement


    Meet your Host

    The group is facilitated by Dan Singh (he/him/they) who is a British-born gay man of South Asian heritage. Dan has worked in health and wellbeing for over 25 years with South Asian & all LGBTQ+ communities. 

    Dan will facilitate a safe online space for people to explore general and specific issues related to their gender and sexuality from lived experiences of South Asian heritage.

    If you want to find out more, or perhaps want to have a chat before attending the group then please contact Dan at

    [email protected]


    • We are primarily a social group. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis please follow THIS link. 
    • There is also further support you can access.
    • We also have a find out service too.

    South Asian HangOuts is funded through the National Lottery Community Fund.


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    Published: 1st March, 2023

    Updated: 2nd February, 2026

    Author: Anonymised User

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